Should we avoid responding towards gossips?
Our emotions might be easily effected by other people’s commentary, even though they might not be serious about it.
According to Alison Fragale from North Carolina State University experiment, Mr. A can get 50 USD after he achieved what he was asked to while Ms. B decides what he needs to achieve.
Version 1
Ms. B was told Mr. A respected her a lot before she decides.
Results show that Ms. B will choose something relevantly easy for Mr. A to achieve, such as talk about something that is fun.
Version 2
Ms. B was told Mr. A scorned her before she decides.
Results show that Ms. B will make him do something that is harder, such as bark like a dog for three times.
As the results shows, when we discriminate others, they will make our lives harder by giving us harder goals/jobs. If we are more respectful, then our lives are generally easier.
We should incense others more, so they can feel our sincere. Therefore, everything will happen smoothly.